Yesterday, because of a phone bill's fees, my third and fourth brothers were fighting! I was stopped them after that, my father came to stop them too. All I can said is they are really not behave enough, stubborn, violence and hot temper.
The third was 18 years old, well the fourth was 14 years old. As we know, 14-16 years old is rebellion period. How was the fight started? Let's see the dialog below:
3rd: Ah Hong (1st brother) already complaint that the house phone bill was cost RM60++, why so expensive? Sure is you did!
4th: I only sms. Not going to cost so much. Of course is you.
3rd: Hng! Let's see lar, when the phone bill comes, you will know.
4th: I only use little.
3rd: Do not say too much, wait bill comes.
4th: I only use when 5 November. So, sure it is not me cost so expensive on phone bill.
3rd: You not need to lie, although is last month bill, you sure got used. You keep chat with your girls.
4th: See the bill...
Me: Shut up, wait the bill comes. Stop argue each other.
They both keep muttering. I keep yell to stop. Then----
4th: "You kao yao (哭饿，hokkien) xin mi (什么）lan?"
The third brother already cannot bear his anger, direct fight with fourth. Then the fight was began...
It is just a small case, keep repeat the same thing might make someone feels uneasy and uncomfortable. In addition, that is the reason we are brothers for this life, because we are enemy at past life, as Buddha religion. We being together and learn to be nice to each other in this life. No fighting. I quite agree with this theory.
Fighting is really not worth. Anyway, talking or negotiate will be a better way to solve the problem. Who will like violence?