13 December, 2012

Which way will you choose?


A mom advised his son not to play around at the railway train road, unless it is unused railway train. So his son always plays around at unused railway train road.

Now this incident happens –
You are the train driver. The train is going to break down and you need to choose a way to slow down your train and stop it. Now, you have to select one of this two railway roads – Current track or unused track.
Unfortunately, children are playing at that moment. The child who had listened to his mom is playing at the unused railway track, while a group of children is playing at current railway track.

Which track will you choose to slow down your train?

03 November, 2012

女人身边的三种男人


人类是由男人和女人构成的。在女人的一生中,


身边常常会遇到三种男人。


第一是老公

老公是一种约束,

约束你不能随便与别的男人有深入的交往;

老公有一种责任;心甘情愿地为你付出,

即便有再大的压力也咬牙扛着,怕你担心,不图你的任何回报;

老公是一份寄托,他是深深爱着你,是你可以托付终身的男人;

老公是清洗机,

他在有意无意的,日复一日的,

机械地、残酷地洗掉了你所有的激情;

老公是回收站,他心甘情愿为你付出,

并将你的唠叨、埋怨、牢骚统统收下,装在肚子里烂掉;

老公是拐杖,陪伴你走到人生的历程,到生命的尽头你会有感慨:

“老公,你是最爱我,最心疼我的人!”

老公也是蛮不讲理,

横行霸道,甚至喝完酒后经常动粗的男人;

老公更是在你面前永远讲不清孰是孰非,

将你娶进门后,就很少再说“我爱你”的那个男人。


第二是情人

情人是性玩侣伴,他们的区别是有真实的情感成分,

情人是情感大于欲望的一种特殊的,

若即若离的男女关系;情人是女人情感失落的一个补充,

是有意或无意追寻到的一个抒发情感的空间,

一份出轨梦想的冒险尝试;虽然不能天天与情人在一起,

但是,每一次相遇,

他都能让你心花怒放,激情四射;情人只是女人生命中的一个过客,

一个情感缺失的补充,是正当你感觉生活麻木,

情感危机的时候,出现在你生活中的男人;

情人是与你有缘,但却无份的男人,

有缘是让你们在茫茫人海中相逢,

无份又令你们不能牵手相伴红尘,感受到一种尴尬和无奈,

因为你的身边已经有了另一位男情人就是几句甜言蜜语,

便把你身上的激情和沉淀的细胞勾出来的那个男人。

与情人的关系,总是以浪漫和激情开头,

爱得疯狂,爱得死去活来,以失落和悔恨收场,

到头来,你会悔恨自己的轻浮和他的薄情,

令你恨得咬牙切齿,尽管如此,

他却在你的心中留下难以磨灭的印记。


第三是蓝颜知己

也许,

在每个女人的骨子里都有这样一个情结,

或是无意识的渴望——想拥有一个蓝颜知己。

他不是丈夫、不是情人,而是居住在你精神家园里的那个男人。

他不一定英俊,也不一定比你年长,更不一定是权贵或富翁,

但是,他一定是成熟、睿智、宽容和善解人意的男人。

不论你是否承认,在你的内心都有一个属于自己的角落。

那里可能是儿时没有实现的梦想,可能是你少女时期的渴望,

也可能是你青春期遭遇到的一个伤痛,

也许是生活中一直没有搞清楚的困扰和疑团,

更可能是你一生都不能对外开启的秘密。

如果有一个男人能真正地走进你的心田,

解读你的失意,诠释你的困惑,排解你的痛苦,懂得你的渴望。

在你烦恼的时候,他是你最忠实的听众,最真诚的朋友。

而在你快乐的时候,他会淡出你的视野,为你的快乐而快乐。

如果有这样一个人走到了你的内心,他一定就是你的蓝颜知己。

有了这样一个蓝颜知己,也就等于你多了一个心理医生,

多了一本心灵日记,多了一个精神支柱。

说到底,蓝颜知己其实就是朋友,真正地关心你的一位朋友

他会在你失意时,给你振作的勇气和信心,

在你得意时,提醒你要正视自己,

在你遇到生活的难题和工作的压力时,

他会认真地帮你分析,找出问题的根结,帮助你走出低谷的朋友;

蓝颜知己是你最铁杆的异性朋友,是可以互诉衷肠的异性朋友。

他对你应是无欲无求的,不夹杂任何暧昧的气息。

当然,

如果你们之间真的有亲密关系的话,

那也是双方心甘情愿的,没有任何的功利目的。

知己是彻底征服你心灵的人,是让你产生共能够读懂你,

有了他的理解和宽容,才使你度过好多迷茫之夜的异性朋友。

与蓝颜知己在一起,

会让你觉得生活不是一潭死水,因为有他会泛起一圈涟漪;

他不会让你心累,不会让你心烦。他能体会到你的快乐和幸福,

能感觉到你的悲伤和痛苦,懂得你的叹息和眼泪。

在他的面前,

你往往选择投降,因为你已经无路可逃,无路可选。

也许,

在你的内心世界根本就不能逃,也不想逃。


那么,老公、情人和蓝颜知己

这三者之间有何差别呢?


老公是你下夜班的时候,

把你从单位接回家,并为你准备好了可口饭菜的男人;

情人是接你下夜班,然后去宾馆开房间的男人;

蓝颜知己是接你下夜班,然后送你到路口的男人。




老公是在你突然傻笑的时候,

用疑惑的眼神看着你,说你有精神病的男人;

情人是你傻笑,

他深情地望着你,并问:“宝贝是不是在想我的好呢?”的男人;

而蓝颜知己会问:“小坏蛋,你傻笑什么呢?”的那个男人。


老公是经常惹你生气,

而又不肯哄你,并溜之大吉,等你消气后嘻皮笑脸地说:

“老婆别生我的气了,都是我不好!”的那个男人;

情人是惹你生气,

你渴望他哄你,但他又哄不好的男人;

蓝颜知己是根本不会惹你生气,

他希望你的脸上永远充满灿烂笑容的男人。



老公是当你悲伤的时候,

你会尽力掩饰内心的痛苦,不让他看出你有任何悲伤的男人;

情人是在你悲伤的时候,会表现出特别同情的男人;

蓝颜知己是在你悲伤的时候,你只想靠在他的肩膀大哭一场的男人,

你无需他说话,也无需他安慰,只是想依靠他的肩膀和胸膛。


老公是在你熟睡时,轻轻为你盖上被子的男人;

情人是在你熟睡时,在你脸上轻吻的男人,

蓝颜知己是你熟睡时,坐在床边默默守侯你的男人;


老公远行,

你会千叮咛万嘱咐,想说的太多,最后只有四个字,老公保重;

情人远行,

你会提醒他说,不要沾花惹草,勾引别的女人;

蓝颜知己远行,

你会说,真想和你一起去,陪在你身边;




和老公走在街上,

你们会若即若离十指相交,那是十指相扣的幸福;

和情人走在街上,

你会把手放在他的腰间,那是激情冲动的火热,

你很少和蓝颜知己走在街上,

即便是有你们只会牵手,

那是你想真切感受到他右手牵你左手的那丝温馨。






如果说老公是一杯白开水的话,

那么,情人就是一杯烈酒,

知己就是一杯咖啡。

开水虽然淡而无味,却是生活中不能缺少的;

烈酒喝会让你心醉,陶醉后你会后悔;

咖啡虽然苦,

你却觉察不出它的苦,只品尝到其浓浓的香甜。


有人说,

女人应找一个爱你的男人做老公,

找一个你爱的男人当情人,

找一个让你心仪却无缘相伴一生的男人做知己。


女人没有必要找情人。

其实,情人常常是最无情的那个人,

你们之间除了欲望,很难有真情。


女人只要有一个爱你的老公,

一个心有灵犀的蓝颜知己足矣。


对女人来讲,

永远不会有最好的老公,

只会有最好的异性朋友。


同样,


女人也没有最好的情人,做男人的情人,


你就好比是他身上的一件衣服,总有过时的那一天,

和情人之间不要有某种幻想,他不会有给你名份的那一天,

他的诺言虽美丽,但不真实,也不甜蜜。

在这里的女性同胞们,不要当男人的情人,

但我不反对你有一位蓝颜知己。

前提是你和蓝颜知己之间的距离不能太近,

否则做不成知己。


从心理学的角度说, 她真的需要有一个人,

希望沟通的是女人,善于沟通的,是女人,需要沟通的,是女人。

所以,女人的一生不停地说,不断寻找可以倾诉的人。

在烦恼时,诉说心曲;在开心时,分享乐趣;在失意时,得到鼓励。

这个人不一定是你的老公。因为老公爱你,但他不一定真正懂你。


01 November, 2012

江美琪 - 芥末不辣


江美琪 - 芥末不辣 (unplugged)

  • 歌名:芥末不辣
  • 专辑:惊叹这美丽
  • 歌手:江美琪
  • 我想应该这样
  • 我想订出答案
  • 就算有人受伤
  • 可是我也很慌张
  • 面对爱谁都会和我一样
  • 不哭不算勇敢
  • 笑了不算潇洒
  • 通往爱情的路上
  • 我原来想顺其自然
  • 这一次我却决定不退让
  • 看着幸福发生在朋友的手上
  • 而我总是做在等待席上
  • 如果爱情它只会选择坚持的那一方谁会让
  • 我沿着心中熊熊大火般追逐的力量
  • 不管自己最后会受什么伤
  • 我也要安慰自己千万不要怕
  • 忍耐吧勇敢追吧
  • 今天的芥末不辣
  • 30 August, 2012

    Stitch By Stitch – Javier Colon


    Blue and black, heart torn out,
    You uncover what's beneath my skin
    There and back, there's no doubt, your touch is my medicine

    I'll be okay, 'cause you heal me...

    And I'll give you all my pieces broken
    In your hands, there's nothing that you can't fix
    My heart is frayed, my scars are open
    So put me back together now, stitch by stitch
    Put me back together now, stitch by stitch.

    What you say, without words, resuscitates what was numb inside
    So repair me, every thread of me, 'cause you're bringing me back to life

    I'll be okay, 'cause you heal me...

    And I'll give you all my pieces broken
    In your hands, there's nothing that you can't fix
    My heart is frayed, my scars are open
    So put me back together now stitch, by stitch

    I'm still afraid of falling, somehow it's takin' over me
    Don't ever let me let it go...

    There and back, there's no doubt, your touch makes me whole again

    And I'll give you all my pieces broken
    In your hands there's nothing that you can't fix
    My heart is frayed, my scars are open
    So put me back together now, stitch by stitch
    Put me back together now, stitch by stitch
    Put me back together now, stitch by stitch

    07 April, 2012

    Don't Do That! Series Bitmagic~


    These contain all collection of Bitmagic-Fun Flash. (Very small file), there are quite memorable. Share with you all~:) 

    Don't Do That ~ In The Bus 
    1. In The Pool
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?a55urbojc6rsqo7

    2. Rest
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?nq56cd8edpx5utb

    3. Office Kung Fu
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?cpy3env1jdsfb5t 

    4. Interview
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?1c2jpk6lkwbzcdj

    5. Funeral
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?lalyyalwpaepq35

     6. Fishing
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?ngs05k9yenlnoh2

    7. Hospital
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?yjty6d1jal1dna6

    8. Cubicle Yoga
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?taya43ftnxaiaf5

    9. Bus
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?9ezewh007iqb9ek

    10. Bored Meeting
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?dimvstjc8cyllj7

    11. Airplane
    http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?c4at09tly8bhcrv

    Have Fun! :) (The first time I saw these series w when I was studied in Form 4 (Year 2004)) 

    27 February, 2012

    Mix Life Record

    In this February, my status is unemployed. I enjoyed in this month, and so some issues also makes me not really happy. 

    Well, I remember the 1st day of 2nd week of February, a guy called Mr.C contact me through my phone. After that, I knew that he was the guy from recruitment company (Jobstalent). I even do not know why he will contact me, because I did not apply this service. Actually I did a lot of registration on Jobstreet, JobsDB, and even a bit social website called Linked-In. As I guess, he might saw my information in Linked-In website. (At last I knew that he know my information through Jobstreet)
    LRT Moment
    Mr.C was very good and efficient in introduction of new jobs to me. As for 2 weeks, he already introduced me to interview in 4 companies (Actually 1 more at Sunway due to distance problem then I had rejected). Different kind of interview I had "enjoyed". In conclusion, company A and company B are normal interview, speak in English, only one interviewer. Then, company C is the special interview section. Total 4 of interviewers sit around me in the meeting room. 2 man and 2 ladies. (I feel's like I take part in American Idol lol...*when can i take part in real american idol?). Last, company D is special too, 2 interviewer but I totally not their wanted one. 
    SPCA Moment
    Company C shortlisted me after 1st interview, then I get offer too after 2nd interview of same company. (This time 3 mens and 2 ladies/Company C has 2 interview section) In fact, I quite happy that 3 out of 4 companies want to offer me (programmer/software engineer) so far. I didn't ever think that I will get many offers from them, just thought might fail in my interview. Well, I choose Company C finally due to their benefit and nearer distance from my place. Then, my job will be started on 1st March 2012. (Company A,B and D include programming and/or logic test, so I didn't get well too in the result >_<)

    Smile Moment
     Besides, currently I still stayed with my big brother in his rented room. So, I force myself to hang out/out alone whole day on every weekend to give him privacy moment. I need to used to it until this mid-year as he said he will move to new house in KL. Then, I have to spend money in smart way lor~

    Last Day Moment
    Avril moment!~ Borrow from Panazz 
    Oh yeah, although interview was my part time job for this month, I did attend the Avril Lavigne concert where held at Stadium Merdeka, KL. Well, that was my first time to enjoy the concert. Mostly, Avril Lavigne not enough energy to sing chorus part, so she let us sing it! XD I seat at far away from the stage, and little rain on that night. My friends and I were singing together with Avril Lavigne too. **Cheapest ticket price, next time will improve. @@ 

    Broga Hill Moment
    I had finished my e-novel too from my laptop. It is really hard to spend my time on novel-laptop. 4 ghost e-novel from my course mate-Frank, he gave me last 2 years and I just finish read last week. I had deleted 3 ghost e-novel and only finish 1 e-novel-[冤鬼路]. This e-novel story quite nice and touching, but feel so fantasy, even power also included. I invest my time on another e-novel [You are the apple of my eyes]. Yeah, novel is a bit different with the movie we watch. Novel more focus on the feeling, and not really contain masturbate part lol From the novel, we know that the [柯井藤] has fall in love with another girl also...anyway is really fun and funny when I read this novel.       

    New Year moment
    Another weird test I had taken in this month too - Sing alone in Neway Karaoke! Oh my~~This is very weird, weird than watch movie alone. I more enjoy the movie alone. That moment karaoke I alone sing until 3pm from 11am include lunch set with cheaper price. My first long time alone in Karaoke center. From soft sound to energy sound, then from energy sound to uncle sound and rock n' roll~~lol (Time pass very slowly*)
    Group Sing-K Moment
    Lastly, I would like to say that be prepare well before go for an interview, about company's background, and what question should ask them. Furthermore, the company who request to view profile/resume through jobstreet, the chance to get the job is not higher too. If you prefer to work as a boss, and have flexible time, try insurance career/direct sales. One more, I am very active in Facebook! lol  

    "Chibi Maruko Chan" Moment

      

    02 February, 2012

    国民服役PLKN回忆 - 完结篇


    完结篇
                      
              回到宿舍里,我忙着收拾行李,因为下午四点多将会回家。

              泓生及柏翰助我一臂之力,收拾我的一大堆东西。有些东西我留给了他们使用。他们的帮忙让我很感动。泓生也叫我在他的书上写下留言。

              终于,我收拾完了,我也在宿舍里等待父母的到来。

              健泳:锦任,你的父母来了!
    谢谢。我向健泳说道。健泳从Charlie-9跑上Charlie-10来通知我。

        我跟房里的所有人握手;向柏翰、泓生、伟俊及今杰拥抱。Firdaus叫我别哭,可是我的眼泪流不出来。阿迪及房里的华人都在制作华族表演的道具。我只有干扰他们跟他们握手道别。国城则在床上呼呼大睡。

        我背着黑色大背包下楼见我的父母。今杰及柏翰帮我提着青色旅行包,而伟俊提着我的黄桶。我好感激他们帮我拿东西。柏翰还笑说等到家长日的到来,他要叫父母带一些东西回家去。

        到了办公室外的马路,我们把所有东西丢进了车后座。Charlie-9的马来朋友在车边与另一位马来朋友道别。我也跟他们道别。我向十位马来朋友握手道别。其中还有一位是CB时的Buddy-NazeriBotak)。他好爱闹、又Hyperactive。我没想到我有这荣幸跟他是Buddy,我当然不会忘记他及所有在这儿的人。

                  柏翰、今杰、伟俊、振心则跟我的父母聊天。然后,我带爸爸去办公室办手续。Staf Syam代表Komanden祝贺我学业进步,还说要把这儿好的事情传出去,让大家知道PLKN这活动是多么有益。他也说到时文评及照片将于两个月后寄给我。

                  住在新加兰的陈小琪也拿着纪念册跑进办公室叫我写下纪念册。他祝我升学愉快。我也跟他说:你要加油!

        出来时,同伴们都已离开了。听妈说,他们有集会,所以先回去宿舍换衣服去了。

        就这样,坐上爸爸的车,离开了我在这儿约两个月的国民服役生涯。