31 May, 2016

歡歌 獨家伴奏曲 上傳步驟


注意事項
1. 必須是安卓系統,蘋果最新系統(8.0以上)已被加護,所以無法介入歡歌路徑。
2.  準備一台電腦,數據線,需要連接你的手機/移動設備。
3.  已有電腦的基本知識會讓你更明白是如何操作。



步驟:
1.  先準備自己要的伴奏曲。舉例:“When You Say Nothing At All – Ronan Keating”
可上網找尋相關的伴奏曲,也可去Youtube.com找許多伴奏曲。然後自己下載成 .mp3格式。(這個方法會在這忽略,請谷歌查詢)

2.  在自己的歡歌裡,下載一首類似歌名的歌/或無相關也可,然後發個合唱曲。
  不用標歌詞,錄製至少一分鐘,然後不要發佈。

3.  連接你的手機與電腦,然後找尋電話路徑: X:\本機名\hsing\song\mySong\

4.  裡頭會看到很多號碼的檔案,比如:
8892323451515”以及 "8892323451515.hsing" 
前者是歌詞檔(萬萬刪不得),後者是歌曲 (要換成.mp3格式才能聽)

5.  把“8892323451515.hsing”刪除,然後上傳自己的伴奏曲進同一個路徑     
 (X:\本機名\hsing\song\mySong\)。改名為“8892323451515.hsing”
沒錯,這個叫替代法。

6.  回到歡歌程式,試看播放已錄歌曲,你會發現播的是你的伴奏曲喲。
如果格式不對或歌曲本身有問題,那麼歌曲將無法播放/發佈。

7.  恭喜!您已成功地在歡歌發佈第一首伴奏曲,可以開始合唱了喲! J

 
筆記:
*小任與歡歌機構/伴唱團無關係,發放伴奏曲純屬興趣。
*當開始發現伴唱團自行發放伴奏曲,就開始自已研究如何上傳。
*歡歌本身的歌曲已經很多了,當然無法達到每個人都想要唱的歌曲。
*伴唱團也提供了很多伴奏曲,喜歡的話可以去他們的專業找尋。

*歌名需要很深入的研究才能更改,歌詞如要改需要點時間,所以用自備歌詞為利。

17 March, 2016

Years of 28




17 March 2016 as date of today. 

Since this year, I feel like I do not have any achievement yet. 

It has been my working years for 4 years since graduated. 

Four years of working life, changed job once. 

I understand that working for a company is not forever for one's life,
we have to do something during working life. Just like invest, saving or proper life planning?
(Sorry not to try Insurance/Direct Sales...)

I realized I am kind of no much planning for my own life, now just follow what people said and 
enjoy the current life. 

Most of friends of mine, their salary higher than me a lot as I know. 
Talk about saving, yes I did. However, not so success as others. 
I am trying not to use any credit cards when shopping.

I started less watch movie in cinema if compare to previous years. 

Few friends started their business,
Few friends already in a relationship,  
Few friends already married,
Few friends already own property/cars,
Few friends already in their dream path,
Few friends fight hard in their career path...and so on

Recently I keep thinking about what should I do for my coming years or my target in life. 
It bother me so much. I not so sure what I am doing right now (at least I'm writing a blog post now that I had abandoned long time ago)

It seems like there is no target in my life. 
I played mobile games, watch movie at home, singing...nothing that can improve myself seriously...

My future is ambiguous.....
(I wish that some light bulb will appears above my head so that I can plan what to do next at least) 

30 October, 2014

Tower Of Saviors - 神魔之塔

Main Menu
The recent popular mobile games - "Tower of Saviors" (“神魔之塔” - in Chinese words) getting more and more players recently!

At last year, I saw my friends playing this game. Badly, I did not find this game any attractive for me to play. All of sudden, this year- February 8th, 2014, I started play this game in Chinese version - "神魔之塔". “Let me try out this mobile game!”

It is totally attracting me! The design of the cards, colorful rune, and the way of playing makes me playing everyday. For my current work place, I noticed only one colleague playing this game in Chinese version. So I started to ask him many questions that moment. I think he should be feeling proud of it (or actually he feel annoyed lol).

Sooner or later, next colleague start to join this game too. After few days, another one joins too. After two weeks, total of five colleagues join this un-return road. Besides, I noticed my cousin playing long time ago! (I was late to join this game). University friends playing too, but all are in English version. A WhatsApp group chat also created by my friend for discussion. This is really serious…hehe 
Battle Mode
Selection


App-In Purchase
First of all, I strongly disagree to do any app-in purchase, it is just too waste of money. (Buying the thing that not physical, it is just virtual item, for normal people >_<). So I asked the same first colleague again, he told me that he will do it sometimes when comes to promotion. After think of half day, I also purchase the items just to get the promotion item. The moment of drawing cards, will feel extraordinary excited, especially get the platinum card. In addition, we, players - use money to buy “Diamonds” in the game.

Diamond function:
1.      Restore Stamina
2.      Pass the stage that you have game over, restore the life to continue battle
3.      Restore battle souls (recent feature)
4.      Draw monster card (the most important part!)

One day, I post a status to my Facebook wall,
“Tower of Saviors really nice, beautiful cards, game, and must be played daily!”.
My Form 6 friend gave a comment that asks me to join his guild, which created by another form 6 friend too, and he is my cousin too! In the meantime, I just realized that I not yet join any guild (So lame).  

Guild function:
1.      a social communication with other guild members
2.      giving bonus experience amount to up level and bonus gold
3.      instantly fight the stage to get the material that can evolve monster
4.      daily guild mission, complete a day can get 5 black keys, and experience card


At July 2014, my friends and I was giving support to my friend who participate the competition at Mid Valley. (In fact, my purpose was to get free 5 diamonds XD). Congratulation to him getting many diamonds after win 2 rounds (200 diamonds if I not mistaken). I have no courage to take part at that moment, so, anyway it was regret.

Mid Valley Competition TOS
As for now, most of the colleagues join the same guild as me. ^_^

The evolution for the cards is special too. Specific materials card have to hunt and collected for the evolution of main card.
Diamond Price List (expensive)

Recently has more revolution done to this game. For example, two cards can be hybrid when the both skills for the selected cards are ready. An exciting animation show up and the two cards turn into one card.
(Just like Ryu/Ken/Chun-Li casting ultimate power then an animation appears suddenly.)

Now, Tower of Saviors becomes part of my life. One day no playing will feel no comfortable. And maybe, I will quit this game someday.

          Platinum cards

        hybrid mode....

23 September, 2014

胃胀风

是 胃胀风, 还是 肚腩 ? (假肚腩?) @@


最近 (或许时常)肚子都觉得较大,以为是肚腩。有时又认为是胀风。


不是我的肚子哦


如果肚子较辛苦,那就是胀风 ,轻轻敲一敲有点空气。反之,为肚腩。
(严重的话需要去医院检查...)

姜,Ginger


姜,是胃最好的朋友。适当的份量能舒缓不适。

Yakult也是很好的乳酸菌饮品,帮助消化。

Gaviscon也帮助消化不良。

Charcoal/木炭,最良久的胃药,但不宜吃多。

还有很多很多~~~~~~


希望能放多点无声与无味屁,那么胀风就会大幅度减少 XD


21 January, 2014

YEAR 2013 MOVIE LIST (CINEMA)

(CINEMA)

The records made during whole year 2013~:

  1.  Hanzel & Gretel: Witch Hunter (JAN)(RM8, 6/10)
  2.  The Impossible (JAN) (RM8, 7/10)
  3. Taxi! Taxi! (FEB) (RM13, 7/10)
  4. A Good Day to Die Hard (FEB)(RM13, 8/10)
  5.  I Love HK 2013 (FEB)(RM13, 5/10)
  6. Journey to The West (FEB)(RM8, 7/10)
  7. Beautiful Creatures (FEB)(RM8, 6/10)
  8. Hotel Deluxe (FEB)(RM10, 7/10)
  9. Jack: The Giant Slayer (3D) (MAR)(RM21, 7/10)
  10. OZ: The Great and Powerful (MAR)(RM10, 7/10)
  11.  Django Unchained (MAR)(RM10, 7/10)
  12. G.I.JOE 2: Retaliation (MAR)(RM7, 6/10)
  13. Saving General Young (APRIL)(RM6, 6/10)
  14. Ironman 3 (MAY)(RM10, 7/10)
  15. EPIC (MAY)(RM10, 7/10)
  16. Fast & Furious 6 (MAY)(RM10, 8/10)
  17. Man of Steel (JUNE)(RM7, 8/10)
  18. World War Z (JUNE)(RM7, 7/10)
  19. Despicable Me 2 (3D) (JUNE)(RM23, 9/10)
  20. White House Down (JULY)(RM7, 7/10)
  21. Monster University (JULY)(RM10, 8/10)
  22. Pacific Rim (JULY)(RM10, 8/10)
  23. Red 2 (JULY)(RM7, 7/10)
  24. The Lone Ranger (JULY)(RM10, 7/10)
  25. The Conjuring (AUGUST)(RM7, 8/10)
  26. Percy Jackson – Sea Of Monster (AUG)(RM10, 6/10)
  27. Elysium (AUG)(RM7, 8/10)
  28. Unbeatable (AUG)(RM14, 8/10)
  29. The Purge (AUG)(RM10, 5/10)
  30. The Mortal Ins.: City Bones (AUG)(RM10, 7/10)
  31. Kick Ass 2 (SEPTEMBER)(RM13, 8/10)
  32. Riddick (SEPTEMBER)(RM10, 5/10)
  33. The Internships (SEPTEMBER)(FREE, 8/10)
  34. About Time (SEPTEMBER)(RM10, 7/10)
  35. Rush (SEPTEMBER)(RM10, 8/10)
  36. Prisoner (SEPTEMBER)(RM10, 9/10)
  37. Gravity (OCTOBER)(RM9, 8/10)
  38. Insidious: Chapter 2 (OCTOBER)(RM14, 8/10)
  39. THOR 2: The Dark World (NOVEMBER)(FREE, 8/10)
  40. Rigor Mortis (NOVEMBER)(FREE, 7/10)
  41. Carrie (NOVEMBER)(RM10, 7/10)
  42. Ender’s Game (NOVEMBER)(RM10, 7/10)
  43. Firefly (NOVEMBER)(RM10, 7/10)
  44. The Hunger Games: Catching Fire (NOV)(RM10, 8/10)
  45.  The White Storm (DEC)(RM14, 8/10)
  46. 47 Ronin (DEC)(RM8, 7/10)
  47. The Hobbit: Des. of Smaug (DEC)(RM18, 8/10)
  48. Frozen (DEC)(RM10, 8/10)

CONCLUSION:
MOVIES: 48 
EXPENSES: RM 470

05 January, 2014

Bone Ashes - RIP

*This content was for memorial purpose - dearest, youngest brother, Kang. 

My youngest brother, Kang was gone. His body was chosen to cremate. All cousins were attended the temple before cremate happens.

After three hours, we went back to temple to get the bone ashes from the person in charge. 

As explanation from person in charge, the bone ashes was really weak, they took those ashes with extra carefully. They thought the deceased was an old man. What can be concluded was the antibiotic given to him all this time was too heavy for him. After that, we had arranged and the bone ashes were put at the temple where nearby our home. 

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Anyway he was leaving this world. We all family members still have to live the life. I feel proud that I had this youngest brother and he was a good guy, with courage & kind heart. Besides, as prophecy, he was supposed to left this world at the May 2013. However, God and doctor were helped to prolong his life and stay with  us another half years. We appreciated.

As for now, I believe he is living in better place, maybe become God? He was gone before year 2014 arrived. 

The strange thing was none of us dreamed about him after he was gone...

Rest in peace, my dearest youngest brother. You always live inside my heart. Be happy after life. 



The Leaving - (Part II)

*This content was for memorial purpose - dearest, youngest brother, Kang. 

On Monday morning, I helped to look after brother and asked my mother back home for rest. His condition was looks fine, the red eye can be open a bit and look at me. When I hold tight his hand, his hand will hold back my hand, but with no much energy. He cannot talk since last time. I did talk a lot to him and asked him gave me response with hand signal. This time, I noticed his conscious seem like better than yesterday, and spirit as well.

Afternoon, my mother was back to ward here with another brother. After lunch, I went back to ward, Kang was in heart beat very fast, around "155". Mother was very worried because after Kang spilled out all the phlegm and water from mouth and nose, his heart beat start to get fast. Doctor and nurse were not able to do anything for him. The only thing was wait and see him in suffer way. Around 6 p.m., ICU's nurse came to rescue him. After changed the plasters, I had request nurse to do something on him. The nurse said she will give sleeping liquid for him to rest and let him feel stable. Soon after, the medicine was given and the heartbeat really start to slow a bit - around " 147". I was worried anyway. Mother was back as she would like to take care him at midnight shift. The night my father was came and helps to take care.

Tuesday morning was turned to my shift. Before I went to hospital, I heard from father about Kang was going to leave this world at today (31-12-13), as he knew from somewhere else. I was no spirit at all and went to hospital as usual. My mother definitely would not leave hospital at today. The feeling to leave from this brother was really painful, hurt. Anyway, I had tried to think in positive way.

For the day, doctor can tried to save his life by using Antibiotic again to prolong his life. As doctor mentioned before, his lungs were totally infected, hard to be rescued. As all family knew that, brother was injected too many antibiotic this year. Thus, leaving seem like the only way for him and release from pain whole this year. With the God helps, his body/look was totally recovered included the scar that operation did on his head. As he wish to go back home, we arranged for him immediately.

When he reached home, all tubes were took out from his body. Doctor mentioned before on if all the tube were took out he will stop breathing. The moment of those tubes took out was really pain at one moment for him. After that, his heartbeat was getting low, and what he tried to do was throw out all the phlegm from his lungs. I heard that people are get ready to go, their own body will be recovered and cleaned from any bacteria/virus, to be gone with healthy and clean. All of sudden I was understood that the sentences was right. All his friends, family, brothers, and others were around him.
>> He was leaving at night.

Immediately soon after, we had arranged all those things need for him after life...





   

The Leaving - (Part I)

*This content was for memorial purpose - dearest, youngest brother, Kang. 

Last Saturday, I reached home and noticed his look was different if compare with last time. My mother told me that he had many phlegm when the cough generated since last two weeks. In addition, he has no spirit at all, head also not able to pull up. The left eye was red, and hard to open, the right eye was closed, unable to opened.

At Sunday, I passed the Bena medicine to my mother for him to drink (through Ryles' Tube) for his serious cough. In the mean time, I was talking to him as well, but no response I got from him. I believe he was too tired, and need a long rest after exit from local ward last two weeks. Every time he will be given Antibiotic if he stayed in ward. Antibiotic is harmful as well too. After that, I was departed for hair cut. At last, I had failed in hair cut plan due to too many people, and suddenly I received a call from my mother.

"After I gave him the medicine that you given, his nails are turn to purple color now! Right now will send to hospital."
"Sorry, then I go to hospital now too. He should be fine."

At hospital emergency entrance, the doctor let us know that his life is dangerous, anytime he can be gone. She asked my mother to sign whether CPR need to be given to him as if he was gone. My mother was signed to not agree to give CPR, because he was living with pain, as we know. Still, I did not understand that if he want to continue live then just let him. Every person was feeling annoyed and sad, tears from everyone waiting at that area. Half an hour was passed, Kang was arranged to live in ward 4 at level 1.

Kang's mouth stuck with the "mouth open" tool, with oxygen cups, and Ryles's tube as usual. His both eyes were opened and without blinked. Soon after, we had discussed with doctor on what action will be taken for him as he was hard in breath that moment. The "throat-hole" was not able to be done in this place due to no much experiences. The only way was to put the oxygen tube in his body through the mouth. It seem like there was no other choices for him as urgent too.

His body was replaced with the big long tube inserted into his mouth, the "mouth open" tool was removed as well. That moment was quite late and my parents asked me to back home and ready to look after him at next day. From the call at home I knew that his eyes were closed and sleep already. Phlegm was removed a lot too.



02 October, 2013

Working Life Schedule

Monday - Friday Only. 

6.30AM: Wake up, preparation to work
7.00AM: Leave home and drive car to LRT station.
7.40AM: Reach LRT station. (Depend the traffic, most late is around 8AM)
8.00AM: Reach LRT changing station.
8.20AM: Reach work place & have a nice breakfast with friend/colleague.
8.35AM: Tag card and get in to the office, clean up mess (work).
9.00AM: Get Ready? START! Start working. Support system, users, modify/test reports,
               playing with SQL Database, study system, programming little bit,
               being interrupt to do some project work, interrupt, very very tiny
               chi-chat with colleagues, drink coffee/tea, joke with colleagues,
               argue, co-operation, team-work, work, work, work, work, work,work.
               Meeting sometimes.
1.00PM: LUNCH TIME (Variety Places)
2.00PM: (Sometimes late a bit) - Support system, users, modify/test reports,
              playing with SQL Database, study system, programming little bit,
              being interrupt to do some project work, interrupt, very very tiny
              chi-chat with colleagues, drink coffee/tea, joke with colleagues,
              argue, co-operation, team-work, playing figures, discussion,
              Meeting sometimes.
6.00PM: Back HOME! Not that fast. Still need clear up some mess then can go back.
              Too early back LRT so crowded, really not want to.
7.00PM: Back HOME for real. LRT & Drive back home.
8.00PM: Reach Home. Sometime cook for myself dinner/takeaway/bath.
9.00PM: Entertainment/study/househore/facebook/whatsapp/chating/singing/recording...
12.00AM: Wash face brush teeth clean up.
12.15AM: SLEEP.


COLOR OF FEELING

MONDAY              : BLUE
TUESDAY              : PURPLE
WEDNEDSDAY    : GREEN
THURSDAY           : RED
FRIDAY                  : YELLOW
SATURDAY           : ORANGE
SUNDAY               : LIGHT BLUE

27 August, 2013

Recovering Phase

As last month, my youngest brother was discharged, and rest in KL home.

Mother is the most noble, who take care him all the time in the house. Nowadays,
all he need is to learn to exercise his leg by sitting on the high plastic chairs.

He can't talk, can't walk, and can't eat. That was difficult for him to do that.
Still, milk feeding/wheat grain blended through his Ryles' Tube into his nose.

No Chemotherapy or Radiotherapy will apply to him, they are too dangerous to him.

Good luck and be positive all the time.


08 June, 2013

Medulloblastoma

Previously, my youngest brother was entered ward. It's already 2 months in ward till now. 

The brain tumour result was out too. It is called "Medulloblastoma". First time heard this. After asked google, it returned me result:
1. This is bad tumour which is active
2. This tumour is follow patient since born. It happened at age 9-14. 
3. The cure method is chemotheraphy or radiotherapy.

Credited from Google, Medulloblastoma, bottom part the white color.

In this two months, he already did operation 4 times after tumour removed 80% operation. It cannot be removed all due to many system nerve will affect some organ part. The operation like change head tube to extract out the water resided in brain, open small hole on throat side to extract phledgme easily, and last one was changed tube to internal body and let the water flow from brain to stomach. 

He went in ICU few times too. Recently a bit awake but still keep fever every late night, till 39 degree celcius. However it will be back to normal temperature when reach morning. In additional, he cannot talk now due to hole on the throat part.

Credited from Google. Hole in throat surgery.

Recently my routine in ward is arranged as below:
Monday to Thursday: 8pm - 11.30pm
Friday and Saturday: 12am - 10am next morning
Sunday: 7pm - 11.30pm
That's the reason I mostly sleep during weekend when day time. 

There are only 3 family members take care of him in KL included me. My mom and eldest brother take care him most of the time. Sometimes my cousins, auntie, helped us to take care him too. We all very appreciate their volunteer to help. 

Back to topic, chemotheraphy is very painful to patient, again he is a boy yet. We are not decide to do that. Heard rhat it just like using lighter to burn your skin, but it happens inside the body. Luckily eldest brother was found a way called "originate point" which is origin from China, founder at year 2009. This method have to run after he discharge from hospital. So, we still waiting the time he discharge, easier for us to take care him. 

Most of the hard time was experienced too in the ward. I believe everything will goes well and discharge soon. 

14 April, 2013

Add oil, my brother!

Recently, my youngest brother just done the operation on brain tumour. Currently he is in the hospital slowly recover to normal body.

Flash back last 2 weeks, around that Ching Ming moment, he had started some weird condition. Example like blur, look thing hardly even with spectacle. We are not alert enough. Until my mom inform me he had detected-brain tumour by x-ray.

Passed through a lot of process on consultant in hospital private and government, decided in half private and government hospital at final. I had visited him before the operation. He seem like nothing to afraid, it was good for him.

Doctor had explained that the tumour size similar as orange size. The tumour cannot be removed completely, cover only 80%. Besides, his brain contain a lot of water. It will be extracted out by tube during and after operation. That afternoon I had keep praying on his operation will be successful. Thank god, he had pass through that process.

On next day after operation, I went to the hospital to pay a visit. He was in ICU room. It strictly not allowed many people go in to visit. I managed to enter at last. That moment, my mom and I went in the room together. I saw his body cannot move at all, opened eyes without moving the eyeball. Body stick with the breath tube. His tears keep coming out. I was crying when saw it. My mom even control her heartache feeling. We can understand her feeling.

After few days, he can breath on his own. So, he had been moved to normal ward. Now he is feed with the Ryle's Tube. Mostly he closed his eyes, though he is not sleeping. Even speaking also hard. All I can do is give support to him, to pass through these recover process.

Add oil, my lovely brother!

13 December, 2012

Which way will you choose?


A mom advised his son not to play around at the railway train road, unless it is unused railway train. So his son always plays around at unused railway train road.

Now this incident happens –
You are the train driver. The train is going to break down and you need to choose a way to slow down your train and stop it. Now, you have to select one of this two railway roads – Current track or unused track.
Unfortunately, children are playing at that moment. The child who had listened to his mom is playing at the unused railway track, while a group of children is playing at current railway track.

Which track will you choose to slow down your train?

03 November, 2012

女人身边的三种男人


人类是由男人和女人构成的。在女人的一生中,


身边常常会遇到三种男人。


第一是老公

老公是一种约束,

约束你不能随便与别的男人有深入的交往;

老公有一种责任;心甘情愿地为你付出,

即便有再大的压力也咬牙扛着,怕你担心,不图你的任何回报;

老公是一份寄托,他是深深爱着你,是你可以托付终身的男人;

老公是清洗机,

他在有意无意的,日复一日的,

机械地、残酷地洗掉了你所有的激情;

老公是回收站,他心甘情愿为你付出,

并将你的唠叨、埋怨、牢骚统统收下,装在肚子里烂掉;

老公是拐杖,陪伴你走到人生的历程,到生命的尽头你会有感慨:

“老公,你是最爱我,最心疼我的人!”

老公也是蛮不讲理,

横行霸道,甚至喝完酒后经常动粗的男人;

老公更是在你面前永远讲不清孰是孰非,

将你娶进门后,就很少再说“我爱你”的那个男人。


第二是情人

情人是性玩侣伴,他们的区别是有真实的情感成分,

情人是情感大于欲望的一种特殊的,

若即若离的男女关系;情人是女人情感失落的一个补充,

是有意或无意追寻到的一个抒发情感的空间,

一份出轨梦想的冒险尝试;虽然不能天天与情人在一起,

但是,每一次相遇,

他都能让你心花怒放,激情四射;情人只是女人生命中的一个过客,

一个情感缺失的补充,是正当你感觉生活麻木,

情感危机的时候,出现在你生活中的男人;

情人是与你有缘,但却无份的男人,

有缘是让你们在茫茫人海中相逢,

无份又令你们不能牵手相伴红尘,感受到一种尴尬和无奈,

因为你的身边已经有了另一位男情人就是几句甜言蜜语,

便把你身上的激情和沉淀的细胞勾出来的那个男人。

与情人的关系,总是以浪漫和激情开头,

爱得疯狂,爱得死去活来,以失落和悔恨收场,

到头来,你会悔恨自己的轻浮和他的薄情,

令你恨得咬牙切齿,尽管如此,

他却在你的心中留下难以磨灭的印记。


第三是蓝颜知己

也许,

在每个女人的骨子里都有这样一个情结,

或是无意识的渴望——想拥有一个蓝颜知己。

他不是丈夫、不是情人,而是居住在你精神家园里的那个男人。

他不一定英俊,也不一定比你年长,更不一定是权贵或富翁,

但是,他一定是成熟、睿智、宽容和善解人意的男人。

不论你是否承认,在你的内心都有一个属于自己的角落。

那里可能是儿时没有实现的梦想,可能是你少女时期的渴望,

也可能是你青春期遭遇到的一个伤痛,

也许是生活中一直没有搞清楚的困扰和疑团,

更可能是你一生都不能对外开启的秘密。

如果有一个男人能真正地走进你的心田,

解读你的失意,诠释你的困惑,排解你的痛苦,懂得你的渴望。

在你烦恼的时候,他是你最忠实的听众,最真诚的朋友。

而在你快乐的时候,他会淡出你的视野,为你的快乐而快乐。

如果有这样一个人走到了你的内心,他一定就是你的蓝颜知己。

有了这样一个蓝颜知己,也就等于你多了一个心理医生,

多了一本心灵日记,多了一个精神支柱。

说到底,蓝颜知己其实就是朋友,真正地关心你的一位朋友

他会在你失意时,给你振作的勇气和信心,

在你得意时,提醒你要正视自己,

在你遇到生活的难题和工作的压力时,

他会认真地帮你分析,找出问题的根结,帮助你走出低谷的朋友;

蓝颜知己是你最铁杆的异性朋友,是可以互诉衷肠的异性朋友。

他对你应是无欲无求的,不夹杂任何暧昧的气息。

当然,

如果你们之间真的有亲密关系的话,

那也是双方心甘情愿的,没有任何的功利目的。

知己是彻底征服你心灵的人,是让你产生共能够读懂你,

有了他的理解和宽容,才使你度过好多迷茫之夜的异性朋友。

与蓝颜知己在一起,

会让你觉得生活不是一潭死水,因为有他会泛起一圈涟漪;

他不会让你心累,不会让你心烦。他能体会到你的快乐和幸福,

能感觉到你的悲伤和痛苦,懂得你的叹息和眼泪。

在他的面前,

你往往选择投降,因为你已经无路可逃,无路可选。

也许,

在你的内心世界根本就不能逃,也不想逃。


那么,老公、情人和蓝颜知己

这三者之间有何差别呢?


老公是你下夜班的时候,

把你从单位接回家,并为你准备好了可口饭菜的男人;

情人是接你下夜班,然后去宾馆开房间的男人;

蓝颜知己是接你下夜班,然后送你到路口的男人。




老公是在你突然傻笑的时候,

用疑惑的眼神看着你,说你有精神病的男人;

情人是你傻笑,

他深情地望着你,并问:“宝贝是不是在想我的好呢?”的男人;

而蓝颜知己会问:“小坏蛋,你傻笑什么呢?”的那个男人。


老公是经常惹你生气,

而又不肯哄你,并溜之大吉,等你消气后嘻皮笑脸地说:

“老婆别生我的气了,都是我不好!”的那个男人;

情人是惹你生气,

你渴望他哄你,但他又哄不好的男人;

蓝颜知己是根本不会惹你生气,

他希望你的脸上永远充满灿烂笑容的男人。



老公是当你悲伤的时候,

你会尽力掩饰内心的痛苦,不让他看出你有任何悲伤的男人;

情人是在你悲伤的时候,会表现出特别同情的男人;

蓝颜知己是在你悲伤的时候,你只想靠在他的肩膀大哭一场的男人,

你无需他说话,也无需他安慰,只是想依靠他的肩膀和胸膛。


老公是在你熟睡时,轻轻为你盖上被子的男人;

情人是在你熟睡时,在你脸上轻吻的男人,

蓝颜知己是你熟睡时,坐在床边默默守侯你的男人;


老公远行,

你会千叮咛万嘱咐,想说的太多,最后只有四个字,老公保重;

情人远行,

你会提醒他说,不要沾花惹草,勾引别的女人;

蓝颜知己远行,

你会说,真想和你一起去,陪在你身边;




和老公走在街上,

你们会若即若离十指相交,那是十指相扣的幸福;

和情人走在街上,

你会把手放在他的腰间,那是激情冲动的火热,

你很少和蓝颜知己走在街上,

即便是有你们只会牵手,

那是你想真切感受到他右手牵你左手的那丝温馨。






如果说老公是一杯白开水的话,

那么,情人就是一杯烈酒,

知己就是一杯咖啡。

开水虽然淡而无味,却是生活中不能缺少的;

烈酒喝会让你心醉,陶醉后你会后悔;

咖啡虽然苦,

你却觉察不出它的苦,只品尝到其浓浓的香甜。


有人说,

女人应找一个爱你的男人做老公,

找一个你爱的男人当情人,

找一个让你心仪却无缘相伴一生的男人做知己。


女人没有必要找情人。

其实,情人常常是最无情的那个人,

你们之间除了欲望,很难有真情。


女人只要有一个爱你的老公,

一个心有灵犀的蓝颜知己足矣。


对女人来讲,

永远不会有最好的老公,

只会有最好的异性朋友。


同样,


女人也没有最好的情人,做男人的情人,


你就好比是他身上的一件衣服,总有过时的那一天,

和情人之间不要有某种幻想,他不会有给你名份的那一天,

他的诺言虽美丽,但不真实,也不甜蜜。

在这里的女性同胞们,不要当男人的情人,

但我不反对你有一位蓝颜知己。

前提是你和蓝颜知己之间的距离不能太近,

否则做不成知己。


从心理学的角度说, 她真的需要有一个人,

希望沟通的是女人,善于沟通的,是女人,需要沟通的,是女人。

所以,女人的一生不停地说,不断寻找可以倾诉的人。

在烦恼时,诉说心曲;在开心时,分享乐趣;在失意时,得到鼓励。

这个人不一定是你的老公。因为老公爱你,但他不一定真正懂你。


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